Valentine's Day

"Relationships don't work they way they do on television and in the movies. Will they? Won't they? And then they finally do, and they're happy forever. Gimme a break. Nine out of ten of them end because they weren't right for each other to begin with, and half of the ones who get married get divorced anyway, and I'm telling you right now, through all this stuff I have not become a cynic. I haven't. Yes, I do happen to believe that love is mainly about pushing chocolate covered candies and, y'know, in some cultures, a chicken. You can call me a sucker, I don't care, because I do, believe in it. Bottom line: it's couples who are truly right for each other wade through the same crap as everybody else, but the big difference is they don't let it take them down. One of those two people will stand up and fight for that relationship every time. If it's right, and they're real lucky, one of them will say something" -Dr. Cox (Scrubs)

One of the few pictures he is smiling... creepy

I know Scrubs is a weird place to get a love quote but I still hold these words spoken by Dr. Cox and likely written by some wise writer as truth. Love is complex. And Hard. How many times have we seen the chick flicks, the princesses, the happily ever afters.... Do I really need to start listing all of those?

Either way... It is the small things and the little things. Love at first sight? Maybe it does exist somewhere but overall a relationship is hard work which I think many people forget. They think its an easy thing but its not and it takes work and care.

I know this was a short post, but to me it means alot. Too many people let relationships go just cause things got a bit too hard. Fight for it if you want it.